Ben likes to call the boys (when he asks them to say a prayer) Deacon Jonas or Teacher Miles ('though now they are both teachers, so they both get that title). So we'll call him Father Ben for this post.
Fathers' Day was a nice day - hopefully Ben thought so, too! I'm sure he thought that as soon as he finished speaking in church. :) He gave a great talk on fatherhood!
He got lots of "treats" from us - cheese, vegemite (so gross), fun sodas, european crackers (cookies in America), a couple books, and a t-shirt that has yet to come. :)
For dinner Ben made some delicious chicken, I made bread and potatoes and homemade ice-cream, and Jonas helped me with a strawberry-rhubarb pie. Everyone decided they like plain ol' rhubarb pie better!
Anyways, we sure love and appreciate Ben in our home!
If I had never met your father how would you describe him to me?
Miles –Average height, a beard, balding.
Jonas – He’s got bald on top, he’s not that tall, uhh, and he likes outdoors.
Emmy – Short for a man. Baldish on the top. Good-looking. And nice.
Lucy – He is short, nice, almost bald, and is a nurse at the Black Canyon Surgical Center.
What do you think is your father’s favorite food to eat?
Miles – Swedish meatballs.
Jonas – No idea. Chicken, I don’t know.
Emmy – Chicken.
Lucy – This is hard. I think his favorite food is (can you give me a clue/me - “no”) . . . chicken.
What is something your father loves to do?
Miles – He likes to do things what Lewis and Clark did. Like things in that time era.
Jonas – Camp. Hike. That’s all.
Emmy – Definitely not give talks. Camp, hike, backpack, be with his family, go to Utah, maybe swim.
Lucy – Camp, hike, spend time with his kids, jump on the tramp with Emmy and Lucy.
Which of the kids in our family is most like dad?
Miles – I don’t know. None of us.
Jonas – Jonas, well Miles’ feet are big and I’m skinny and Dad is skinny even though he calls himself fat.
Emmy – Emmy.
Lucy – Lucy.
What is something that dad does that makes you laugh?
Miles – He has bad jokes that are funny.
Jonas - Toots a lot.
Emmy –His like dad-jokes are kind of funny but kind of stupid so it makes me laugh.
Lucy - Tells funny jokes and does funny things.
What do you think you do that you learned by watching your father?
Miles – I really don’t know. I know I’ve learned things, but . . .
Jonas – I guess pitch a tent.
Emmy – I don’t know, umm, do I have to give an answer?
Lucy – I learned how to hike, camp, and make stuff like chicken.
What qualities do you think you inherited from your father?
Miles – Well we agree on a lot of stuff.
Jonas – I don’t know. Being alive maybe.
Emmy – Maybe liking to play “The curling game” and reading.
Lucy – That I like camping, hiking, laughing, jumping on the tramp, that’s it.
What are some of your first memories of dad?
Miles – My baptism.
Jonas – I can barely remember the old house, so it wouldn’t be there. I remember him driving his blue bug.
Emmy – When we went fishing and he would gut all the fish and I would think he’s so brave and mean at the same time.
Lucy – Oh him carrying me in the backpack when we’d always walk and me sucking on my boo.
What do you think dad wants you to become?
Miles – To be a good person, to obey the commandments, to be honest, I guess that’s it.
Jonas – A good husband and a good working man.
Emmy – A good mother, and what I want to become he wants me to become.
Lucy – A mother, a nice girl, a nurse, a surgeon I mean. And live in a good house. And be nice.
What do you think dad loves about being a dad?
Miles – Having kids.
Jonas – I don’t know. Umm. I don’t know. (Jonas these are lame, think of something . . . ) I don’t know.
Emmy – Having children. Being married to mom. And getting to go on really fun adventures with his family.
Lucy - That he could have children, raise them, and have fun with them, and do funny jokes with them.
What do you think dad dislikes about being a dad?
Miles – Also having kids.
Jonas – When the kids argue.
Emmy – having kids and they fight all the time. And he has to work all the time and get money for his family
Lucy – When the kids fight. And some of the work that he does (because sometimes he complains about it).
What makes dad happy?
Miles – History.
Jonas – When the kids don’t argue.
Emmy – When we don’t fight. And, umm, when, ummm, we. No. Going hiking and spending time with family and riding bikes with mom in the morning when he gets work off.
Lucy – When we all get along. Getting outdoors and camping.
What makes dad sad?
Miles – Death of a loved one.
Jonas – When Wilson died.
Emmy – Getting news about Uncle Joe. When we don’t follow God’s commandments. Having to work more.
Lucy – When he comes home to the house a mess and he’s so mad about it he can’t get over it and when his kids fight.
What makes you proud of your dad?
Miles – The things he does. Like everything he does – organizing campouts. He was the bishop, that’s cool.
Jonas – That he’s a hard-working dad.
Emmy – That he’s my dad. He knows how to do a lot of things. He was the bishop. And he’s a good man.
Lucy – That he’s short, that I got to have him as my dad, that he’s a surgeon, that I get to be a Maxwell.
How do you know that dad loves you?
Miles - (Why did Dad make all these hard questions? That’s not the answer.) By everything he does.
Jonas – Well cuz if he didn’t that wouldn’t be good and I don’t know. Good parents are supposed to love their children.
Emmy – Cuz sometimes he jumps on the tramp with us when he doesn’t want to at all. He goes to work every day so he makes money for us. He tells us he loves us.
Lucy – Because he hugs me, he tells me he loves me (no der), and that he gets to take us on fun trips.